I wanted to know more about the words of advice

I didn’t like this book as much as my daughter (who is in her 20s) – I blamed Macy for the complete communication cut-off and therefore their 10 year gap in happiness.
<p style=”text-align: left;”>But- I was interest in the numbered words of advice from Macy’s Mom that she left for her Dad to help raise Macy.   I wanted more of that.  It is so touching to me that people with a terminal disease are focused enough on those living to leave parts of themselves behind!  – this book needed more of that to grab my heart.</p>