I don’t think we can truly know how we would react to something like that until we’re in the situation. There are so many factors, I want to think I would ask him to come clean but there are so so many things to consider….
It certainly would depend on the situation. Was it self defence? Was it an accident? Was it a psychotic episode? If it was malicious, premeditated murder of an innocent person I would be fearful and would go to the police and ask for protection and a restraining order. I’d also move in with a friend or family member.