If You Finished, How DId You Rate This Book?

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    • #1837
      Christine
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        @therealchristine

        I finished the book a couple of days ago.  I was torn between 3.5-4 starts (on a 5 star scale).  I ultimately gave it 4 starts.  I thought it was an interesting, well-written book that was definitely heavy on character development rather than plot (which I don’t mind).  Because this book touched on so many darker topics, such as terminal illness, spousal abuse, sexual assault, religious persecution), it was a heavy read.  I think that alone made it a like, not a love, for me.  My biggest criticism of the book was that the ending was abrupt and a little too open-ended for my personal taste.  I know the characters definitely evolved as the story progressed, but I would have liked at least an epilogue to see how certain things played out, especially with Iqbal.  The airport scene made me so sad, and it had potential ramifications for so many characters. We never even saw the reunion of friends in the United States, which was the main driver of the story.  Therefore, while the author deftly wove together a lot of issues and painted a picture of life in India that I found fascinating, the book left me a bit unsatisfied.

        Just curious what others think?

      • #1864
        Melissa
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          @melray

          I would give this book 3 stars. The character development was strong. But I was dissatisfied with the ending. I would have liked to have read of the reunion or the friends in the states, follow up on Iqbal and Mumtaz (who may have been my favorite character of the book). The whole premise of the book was to reunite friends who had spent many years apart, the struggle to make it happen, but are left with a plane leaving India. As a reader I anticipated a plane leaving India and had spent 300+ pgs waiting to read of the reunion that didn’t play out. An epilogue here would have been much appreciated. It was the ending that dropped the rating for me.

          • #1871
            Christine
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              @therealchristine

              Melissa – I agree!  This is my first book by Thrity Umrigar, and she is clearly a gifted writer who knows how to craft complex characters. But this book just left me hanging. I was thinking, maybe from the author’s perspective, every one of the main characters had some kind of resolution – Kavati came to terms with her sexual identity  and “came out” to her closest friend, Laleh forgave herself for the past and had renewed appreciation for her husband and family, Armaiti made peace with dying and would get to see her friends (and know that they would be there for her daughter), and Nishta made the difficult decision to leave her husband (and betray her SIL) and country to seek a new life in America. But as a reader, I needed more resolution to the story, especially because the airport scene occurred so late in the book and was maybe the most heart-wrenching and dramatic. Iqbal had been unable to talk to his his wife or sister, the two people he loved the most, so they couldn’t understand him. The one person he did confide in, who understood him, betrayed him (first by helping his wife leave, after promising not to, and then capitalizing on the prejuduce that Iqbal has struggled against his whole life to have him arrested). And clearly, Adish was distraught about what he did, and he was a sympathetic character. And we don’t get to see what happens! Just an odd choice, and definitely unsatisfying.  I wanted some of those loose threads to be tied up.

              • #1876
                Melissa
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                  @melray

                  100% agree with everything you said. It was like reading my own thoughts! lol! If I can make a recommendation, don’t judge Thrity Umrigar on this one book. I read A Space Between Us a couple years ago and it has stuck with me all these years. It’s a heartbreaking story but definitely worth the time. It may have even played into my rating of this book a little because I know how much the book impacted me, and being it was the same author, it felt a betrayal to give less than 3 stars. lol!
                  I loved the question you posed to this chat btw. Great question! I always enjoy reading others perspectives of books and their reasons as to why they rate a book a certain way and if is agree.

            • #1877
              Christine
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                @therealchristine

                I will definitely be reading other books by this author. I can tell she is talented and knows how to craft a story. Part of the reason I decided to participate in the challenge was to discover some new (to me) authors.  So thanks for the recommendation! And for sharing your review/thoughts on the book. It is so interesting to get others’ perspectives.

              • #1891
                Wendy Connell
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                  @wendyreads

                  I’ve read other books by this author and loved them. I’ve settled on a 3.5 star rating for this book. The focus of the book shifted, and I liked the ending. However, I think too much time was spent on making us think the book was about one friend dying and wanting a reunion after 30 years. During the final third of the book, I thought the primary purpose of the book was to learn about the conflict in 1993 (is that the right year?), the differences in religion, caste, and class in India, the relationships between friends, family, and spouses, and how each person deals with those things. Before the final day in the book, I would have given the book only 3 stars. I thought the final day, and the airport scene especially raised the rating for me. I couldn’t stop reading at the end.

                  • #1910
                    Christine
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                      @therealchristine

                      You are so right about it hard to discern what the author was trying to make the focus. I think she tackled so much, it was overambitious and hard to build it into a cohesive narrative with a central focus. There were a lot of stories – albeit, interesting and powerful ones – being told.

                  • #1903
                    Marsha Rutherford
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                      @marsharutherfordyahoo-com

                      This was a very well-written book, but because of all the reasons stated so well in the above comments, I only gave it 3 stars. It did seem unfinished after such a dramatic build up to the airport departure when the goal was a reunion of the women. Just not very satisfactory even though it had been enthralling.

                      • #1911
                        Christine
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                          @therealchristine

                          It’s so interesting to hear everyone’s thoughts. But we all seem to agree that the ending was a letdown.  But it definitely kept me turning the pages, so “enthralling” is a good word!

                      • #1965
                        Heidi
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                          @heidic

                          I have mixed feelings about this book. Over all I give it 3 1/2 stars. I liked the characters but I thought it was more about the relationship between the each married couple rather than the 4 girlfriends as promoted. I also thought that it threw a lot of issues at the reader (domestic abuse, sexual assault, having a queer character, Muslim vs Paris)  but only skimmed the surface a on each of them. It is disappointing that the reunion of the friends isn’t part of the book, then maybe we would see their friendship in action. It would have been nice to learn of Zoha’s transition to living in America and how she manages. Then meanwhile how is Iqbal managing back in Bombay? Maybe that’s a sequel in the making?

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